Being Vulnerable

Do yoy feel being vulnerable is a mess and it keeps hurting you even when you don't want to be, let's know about this then..

Being vulnerable means allowing yourself to be open and honest, even when it involves sharing personal thoughts, feelings, or experiences that may make you feel exposed or sensitive. It involves embracing authenticity and showing your true self, including your emotions, fears, and uncertainties.

Vulnerability is often associated with:

1. **Expressing Emotions:** Sharing your feelings and emotions, even if they make you feel exposed.

2. **Admitting Mistakes:** Acknowledging when you've made a mistake or are uncertain about something.

3. **Asking for Help:** Seeking support or assistance when needed, acknowledging that you can't do everything on your own.

4. **Sharing Personal Stories:** Opening up about personal experiences, both positive and challenging.

Being vulnerable doesn't imply weakness; instead, it can be a source of strength and connection. It fosters genuine connections with others, promotes empathy, and allows for a deeper understanding of oneself and those around you. It's an essential aspect of building authentic relationships and creating a supportive and compassionate environment.

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Milna Tera

Yun likhte likhte Kahin hath na thak jaye Milna Tera mushkil sahi Milna Tera mushkil sahi Aitbar aj bhi hai Mann ke us ek kone me Wo intezar aj bhi hai Yun tasveer ke har ek tassavur me Khojta wo chehra mai Wo masoom muskurahat yad aj bhi hai Tum milna zarur Aur miloge tum Zarra zarra Kehta ye aj bhi hai Aur mere har ek khayal ko aakar deti Akriti wo har bar ek hi hai Aadhar bana liya hai tumhe Aadharit wo mujhme aj bhi hai Fir wo akar mere khayal ko chuna Fir wo baaton me baaton ka hona Aage aane wale ka kya hai Jo beet rhi thi uske ehsaason ka hona Wo phulon ki baat aj bhi hai Kya kabhi ye thik ho payega Ya jo hai wo thik hi hai Is uljhan me fase rehne ka naam aur kasak aj b hai

कमी - एहसास पूरेपन का!!

कमी कहीं ज्यादा है, कहीं कम है| पर..कहीं कम है तभी तो कहीं ज्यादा है | जिन्दगी का पहलु नज़रिए पर ही तो तय होता है| लेकिन कमी किसी भी कहानी का वह हिस्सा है जो जितना हमें अखरता है ना, उतना ही नैसर्गिक भी है| आप चाहें तो, बैलेंस-शीट का उधाहरण ले लीजिये| इसमें एक तरफ उधार है इसीलिए दूसरी तरफ परिसंपत्तियां हैं| मतलब की एक सिरे पर जहाँ कमी है तो अगले ठीक अगले सिरे पर उसे पूरा करने वाला पूरक| मैं कहना बस इतना ही चाहता हूँ कि ऐ ज़िन्दगी तू ये सब जानती है| तू वो भी जानती है| पर तेरी कमी के पीछे छिपे इस रहस्य की मैं भी समझ चूका हूँ| जिस तरह का कपडा उसी तरह की चाल!! मैनी शायद आज एक बेहतर इंसान नहीं| पर कमी के साथ जीना कुछ ज्यादा ही जैसे अब पसंद आ गया मुझे|कमी के साथ जीना शायद उतना सुखप्रद या मनोरंजक हो ये तो ज़रूरी नहीं| लेकिन शायद इस कमी पर भरोसा करना बहुत आसान है| ये कमी कभी आपको चलती भी नहीं| और चले भी तो कैसे| चल तो खुद ही बता रहा है कि मैं दुःख का रूप स्वाभाविक रूप से रखता हूँ| मेरा तो स्वाभाव ही बुरा है, मुझसे अच्छे की उम्मीद रख क्यूँ खुद बुरा बन रहे ...

The Excerpts

Life beyond hopes.. 09,Sep 2019 Life, a favorite word. It gives me hope, wish to relive, explore new avenues every time I whisper LIFE. But, the definition I guess is always contextual. It always was and may also remain the same ever. Why? Answer is with the question I am raising here. Even at this place my remarks and analysis are for a particular atmosphere & environment. Nature gives us everything - it never discriminates. But we do. Lots of stuff wrangling and wandering up in here. I am so much confused to tell what actually should come out & what not. It pains sometime, the other time I just forget it. But what happens beneath is not easy. I just place another layer of everything else over it & think I have just came out. That does not happen!! But I don't to help it. I feel it to be good. A kind of that should happen to me. I am writing here to vent out. Excerpts from the heart, excerpts from the mind, excerpts from the soul. And trust me there...

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